Désir Diaries A bespoke sex, love & health blog

Though sex is not always necessary, it might be an important part of a healthy relationship in which partners explore the intimacy between them. It is only natural that you want both of you to feel good, but sometimes there might be some factors …

It does not matter whether you have been in a relationship for several years or just some weeks. A breakup is often an excruciating experience that can shake anybody’s confidence. Even if you have been the one to end things, you might still blame …

Many of us working in the sexual health field will agree that one of the most common reasons for men consulting with us is related to erectile dysfunction (ED). Much has been written about the causes, possible treatment options and the psychological causes and …

After nine months of growing a life inside your belly, you’ve delivered your baby and now you have a set of physical and mental changes to come to terms with during your postpartum recovery – including to your sex life. While you will definitely …

What BDSM is all about by Stephen Laverack – Counselling Psychologist When you mention BDSM at a dinner party, one is often met with some judgements or a bit of a giggle, often stemming from misconceptions that ‘it’s all about inflicting pain’, that it’s …

An adult toy’s cleanliness is an essential part of caring for your collection. This post outlines the best methods of keeping your sex toys clean so that they are always spring-fresh and ready to go. No-one enjoys the cleaning part of fun sexual experiences, …

Adult sex toys come in a huge variety of shapes, sizes and functions. This post will teach you how to choose your first toys like an educated pro, according to your desires, needs and budget. You never forget your first time. And unlike your …

Sex toys have long been considered a women’s indulgence or naughty pleasure. In fact, many are unaware that male sex toys even exist or think that the products available are strictly for homosexual couples. This is a myth that deserves to be busted considering that there …

Vibrators come in a vast array of brands, power-levels, colours, shapes and sizes. This post will help you choose your perfect toy, so that you save time, money and make the right decision. A vibrating adult toy has long been called a girl’s best …

Sexual kinks are something couples come to learn about each other through exploration and adventure. But what happens when even your kinks are old and you need something new? We are firm believers in a balanced sexual lifestyle, where both people in the relationship …